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I collect information without making judgments.
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I feel disoriented by so much change in my life.
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The process of my own self-healing enables me to help heal others.
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I have let others down.
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I feel safe.
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I put fear aside and do what needs to be done.
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I put the needs of others before my own.
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I try to be authentic wherever I am.
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When life gets dull, I like to shake things up.
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I find satisfaction caring for others.
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Others see me as fun.
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I feel sexy.
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I believe that people don't really mean to hurt each other.
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As a child, I was neglected or victimized.
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Giving makes me happier than receiving.
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I agree with the statement, “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
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I embrace life fully.
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I keep a sense of perspective by taking a long-range view.
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I am in the process of creating my own life.
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I believe there are many good ways to look at the same thing.
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I am no longer the person I thought I was.
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Life is one heartache after another.
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Spiritual help accounts for my effectiveness.
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I find it easier to do for others than to do for myself.
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I find fulfillment through relationships.
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People look to me for direction.
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I fear those in authority.
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I don't take rules too seriously.
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I like to help people connect with one another.
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I feel abandoned.
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I have times of high accomplishment that feel effortless to me.
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I have leadership qualities.
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I am searching for ways to improve myself.
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I can count on others to take care of me.
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I prefer to be in charge.
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I try to find truths behind illusions.
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Changing my inner thoughts changes my outer life.
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I develop resources, human or natural.
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I am willing to take personal risks in order to defend my beliefs.
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I can't sit back and let a wrong go by without challenging it.
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I strive for objectivity.
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My presence is often a catalyst for change.
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I enjoy making people laugh.
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I use discipline to achieve goals.
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I feel loving toward people in general.
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I am good at matching people's abilities with tasks to be done.
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It is essential for me to maintain my independence.
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I believe everyone and everything in the world are interconnected.
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The world is a safe place.
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People I've trusted have abandoned me.
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I feel restless.
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I am letting go of things that do not fit for me anymore.
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I like to “lighten up” people who are too serious.
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A little chaos is good for the soul.
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Sacrificing to help others has made me a better person.
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I am calm.
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I stand up to offensive people.
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I like to transform situations.
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The key to success in all aspects of life is discipline.
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Inspiration comes easily to me.
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I do not live up to my expectations for myself.
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I have a sense that a better world awaits me somewhere.
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I assume that people I meet are trustworthy.
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I am experimenting with turning my dreams into realities.
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I know my needs will be provided for.
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I feel like breaking something.
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I try to manage situations with the good of all in mind.
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I have a hard time saying no.
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I have a lot more great ideas than I have time to act on them.
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I am looking for greener pastures.
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Important people in my life have let me down.
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The act of looking for something is as important to me as finding it.