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I feel I have to be nice to other people.
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It is important to me to be free and independent.
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It is more important that I know I've done a good job than having others know it.
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Being able to share experiences with other people makes them much more enjoyable for me.
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I am afraid of hurting other people's feelings.
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It bothers me when people try to direct my behavior or activities.
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I find it difficult to say “no” to people.
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I feel bad if I do not have some social plans for the weekend.
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I prize being a unique individual more than being a member of a group.
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When I feel sick, I like to left alone.
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I am concerned that if people knew my faults or weaknesses they would not like me.
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If I think I am right about something, I feel comfortable expressing myself even if others don't like it.
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When visiting people, I get fidgety when sitting around talking and would rather get up and do something.
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It is more important to meet your own objectives on a task than to meet another person's objectives.
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I do things that are not in my best interest in order to please others.
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I like to take long walks by myself.
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I am more concerned that people like me than I am about making important achievements.
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I would be uncomfortable dining out in a restaurant by myself.
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I don't enjoy what I am doing when I don't feel that someone in my life really cares about me.
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I am not influenced by others in what I decide to do.
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It is very important that I feel free to get up and go wherever I want.
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I value work accomplishments more than I value making friends.
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I find it is of importance to be in control of my emotions.
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I get uncomfortable when I am not sure how I am expected to behave in the presence of other people.
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I feel more comfortable helping others than receiving help.
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It would not be much fun for me to travel to a new place all alone.
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If a friend has not called for a while, I get worried that he or she has forgotten me.
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It is more important to be active and doing things than having close relations with other people.
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I get uncomfortable around a person who does not clearly like me.
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If a goal is important to me, I will pursue it even if it may make other people uncomfortable.
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I find it difficult to be separated from people I love.
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When I achieve a goal I get more satisfaction from reaching the goal than from any praise I might get.
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I censor what I say because I am concerned that the other person may disapprove or disagree.
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I get lonely when I am home by myself at night.
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I often find myself thinking about friends or family.
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I prefer to make my own. plans, so I am not controlled by others.
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I can comfortably be by myself all day without feeling a need to have someone around.
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If somebody criticizes my appearance, I feel I am not attractive to other people.
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It is more important to get a job done than to worry about people's reactions.
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I like to spend my free time with others.
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I don't like to answer personal questions because they feel like an invasion of my privacy.
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When I have a problem, I like to go off on ray own and think it through rather than being influenced by others.
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In relationships, people often are too demanding of each other.
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I am uneasy when 1 cannot tell whether or not someone I've met likes me.
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I set my own standards and goals for myself rather than accepting those of other people.
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I am more apologetic to others than I need to be.
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It is important to me to be liked and approved of by others.
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I enjoy accomplishing things more than being given credit for them.
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Having close bonds with other people makes me feel secure.
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When I am with other people, I look for signs whether or not they like being with me.
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I like to go off on my own, exploring new places without other people.
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If I think somebody may be upset at me, I want to apologize.
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I like to be certain that there is somebody close I can contact in case something unpleasant happens to me.
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I feel confined when I have to sit through a long meeting.
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I don't like people to invade my privacy.
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I feel uncomfortable being a nonconformist.
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The worst part about being in jail would be not being able to move around freely.
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The worst part about growing old is being left alone.
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I worry that somebody I love will die.
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The possibility of being rejected by others for standing up for my rights would not stop me.