Form: Self-Assessment for Introverts

When I need to rest, I prefer to spend time alone or with one or two close people rather than with a group.

When I work on projects, I like to have larger uninterrupted time periods rather than smaller chunks.

I sometimes rehearse things before speaking, occasionally writing notes for myself.

In general, I like to listen more than I like to talk.

People sometimes think I'm quiet, mysterious, aloof, or calm.

I like to share special occasions with just one person or a few close friends, rather than have big celebrations.

I usually need to think before I respond or speak.

I tend to notice details many people don't see.

If two people have just had a fight, I feel the tension in the air.

If I say I will do something, I almost always do it.

I feel anxious if I have a deadline or pressure to finish a project.

I can “zone out” if too much is going on.

I like to watch an activity for a while before I decide to join it.

I form lasting relationships.

I don't like to interrupt others; I don't like to be interrupted.

When I take in lots of information, it takes me awhile to sort it out.

I don't like overstimulating environments. I can't imagine why folks want to go to horror movies or go on roller coasters.

I sometimes have strong reactions to smells, tastes, foods, weather, noises, etc.

I am creative and/or imaginative.

I feel drained after social situations, even when I enjoy myself.

I prefer to be introduced rather than to introduce others.

I can become grouchy if I'm around people or activities too long.

I often feel uncomfortable in new surroundings.

I like people to come to my home, but I don't like them to stay too long.

I often dread returning phone calls.

I find my mind sometimes goes blank when I meet people or when I am asked to speak unexpectedly.

I talk slowly or have gaps in my words, especially if I am tired or if I am trying to speak and think at once.

I don't think of casual acquaintances as friends.

I feel as if I can't show other people my work or ideas until they are fully formulated.

Other people may surprise me by thinking I am smarter than I think I am.