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Yes
No
1
From your viewpoint, is your partner accessible to you?
I can get my partner's attention easily.
2
My partner is easy to connect with emotionally.
3
My partner shows me that I come first with him/her.
4
I am not feeling lonely or shut out in this relationship.
5
I can share my deepest feelings with my partner. He/she will listen.
6
From your viewpoint, is your partner responsive to you?
If I need connection and comfort, he/she will be there for me.
7
My partner responds to signals that I need him/her to come close.
8
I find I can lean on my partner when I am anxious or unsure.
9
Even when we fight or disagree, I know that I am important to my partner and we will find a way to come together.
10
If I need reassurance about how important I am to my partner, I can get it.
11
Are you positively emotionally engaged with each other?
I feel very comfortable being close to, trusting my partner.
12
I can confide in my partner about almost anything.
13
I feel confident, even when we are apart, that we are connected to each other.
14
I know that my partner cares about my joys, hurts, and fears.
15
I feel safe enough to take emotional risks with my partner.