Form: Test of Object Relations, TOR-SF

1 – Completely disagree
2 – Disagree
3 – Neither agree nor disagree
4 – Agree
5 – Completely agree
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1
I believe I am truly special.
2
When a relationship with another person involves too much commitment, I withdraw.
3
I often feel as if though there is no clear boundary between me and other people.
4
I don't have a lot of contacts with people.
5
When I am in a relationship, I want to control my partner.
6
If I am on a short trip, I phone the people I am close to almost every day.
7
I believe I was born to do great things.
8
I would like to escape from a relationship that is becoming more and more intimate.
9
Sometimes I feel so close to another person that I no longer know who I am.
10
Other people seem so distant from me.
11
I want other people to be the way I want them to be.
12
Sometimes I fear that one of the people I am close to might die.
13
I am worth more than other people.
14
When I'm in a relationship, I feel trapped.
15
Sometimes in relationships with others I begin to lose my sense of self.
16
I feel that there is a barrier between myself and other people.
17
In a relationship I become very angry when my partner doesn't act as I want him/her to.
18
When I go on a trip, I miss my family a lot.

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