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Spoke to me in a warm and friendly voice.
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Did not help me as much as I needed.
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Let me do those things I liked doing.
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Seemed emotionally cold to me.
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Appeared to understand my problems and worries.
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Was affectionate to me.
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Liked me to make my own decisions.
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Did not want me to grow up.
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Tried to control everything I did.
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Invaded my privacy.
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Enjoyed talking things over with me.
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Frequently smiled at me.
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Tended to baby me.
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Did not seem to understand what I needed or wanted.
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Let me decide things for myself.
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Made me feel I wasn't wanted.
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Could make me feel better when I was upset.
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Did not talk with me very much.
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Tried to make me feel dependent on her/him.
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Felt I could not look after myself unless she/he was around.
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Gave me as much freedom as I wanted.
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Let me go out as often as I wanted.
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Was overprotective of me.
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Did not praise me.
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Let me dress in any way I pleased.