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I find it difficult to depend on others.
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It is very important to me to feel independent of others.
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I find it easy to get emotionally close to others.
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I worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others.
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I am comfortable without close emotional relationships.
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I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others.
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I worry about being alone.
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I am comfortable depending on others.
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I find it difficult to trust others completely.
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I am comfortable having others depend on me.
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I worry that others do not value me as much as I value them.
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It is very important to me to feel self-sufficient.
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I prefer not to have others depend on me.
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I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.
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I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.
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I prefer not to depend on others.
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I worry about having others not accept me.
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I tend to let problems build up before dealing with them.
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I would like to spend more time with others, but they do not have enough time for me.
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It takes a long time for me to become close to someone new.
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I am affectionate in my relationships with others.
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I am too busy to form close relationships with others.
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I tend to be emotionally expressive in my relationships with others.
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I am honest and open in my relationships with others.
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I am shy in social situations.
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When I disagree with others, I find that they are often defensive.
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I do not disclose personal information to others that I am close to.
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It is difficult to accept advice from others because their views are so different from mine.
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I like to deal with conflict immediately, regardless of how long it takes to resolve the conflict.
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I am usually a good judge of how others are feeling.
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I cry easily.
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I handle conflicts differently depending on the issues and the individual involved.
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I do not express my feelings openly for fear that others might disagree with me.
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I believe that it is a waste of time to argue/disagree with others.
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I am comfortable crying in front of others.
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Many of the problems in my relationships with others are primarily my fault.
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When I am upset, I go to others for comfort or support.
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I do not go to others when I am upset because I like to deal with problems on my own.
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Although I want to be accepted, sometimes I feel like I do not fit in.
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I wish that I could be more open in my relationships, but I do not know how to change.