Form: Trent Relationship Scales Questionnaire, T-RSQ

I find it difficult to depend on others.

It is very important to me to feel independent from others.

I find it easy to get emotionally close to others.

I worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others.

I am comfortable without close emotional relationships.

I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others.

I worry about being alone.

I am comfortable depending on others.

I find it difficult to trust others completely.

I am comfortable having others depend on me.

I worry that others do not value me as much as I value them.

It is very important to me to feel self-sufficient.

I prefer not to have others depend on me.

I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.

I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.

I prefer not to depend on others.

I worry about having others not accept me.

I tend to let problems build up before dealing with them.

I would like to spend more time with others, but they do not have enough time for me.

It takes along time for me to become close to someone new.

I am affectionate in my relationships with others.

I am too busy to form close relationships with others.

I tend to be emotionally expressive in my relationships with others.

I am honest and open in my relationships with others.

I am shy in social situations.

When I disagree with others, I find that they are often defensive.

I do not disclose personal information to others that I am close to.

It is difficult to accept advice from others because their views are so different from mine.

I like to deal with conflict immediately, regardless of how long it takes to resolve the conflict.

I am usually a good judge of how others are feeling.

I cry easily.

I handle conflicts differently depending on the issues and the individual involved.

I do not express my feelings openly for fear that others might disagree with me.

I believe that it is a waste of time to argue/disagree with others.

I am comfortable crying in front of others.

Many of the problems in my relationships with others are primarily my fault.

When I am upset, I go to others for comfort or support.

I do not go to others when I am upset because I like to deal with problems on my own.

Although I want to be accepted, sometimes I feel like I do not fit in.

I wish that I could be more open in my relationships, but I do not know how to change.