Form: Trent Relationship Scales Questionnaire, T-RSQ

Trent Relationship Scales Questionnaire, T-RSQ
1 – Not at all like me
2 – Mostly not like me
3 – Rather not like me
4 – Neutral
5 – Rather like me
6 – Mostly like me
7 – Very much like me
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1
I find it difficult to depend on others.
2
It is very important to me to feel independent from others.
3
I find it easy to get emotionally close to others.
4
I worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others.
5
I am comfortable without close emotional relationships.
6
I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others.
7
I worry about being alone.
8
I am comfortable depending on others.
9
I find it difficult to trust others completely.
10
I am comfortable having others depend on me.
11
I worry that others do not value me as much as I value them.
12
It is very important to me to feel self-sufficient.
13
I prefer not to have others depend on me.
14
I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.
15
I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.
16
I prefer not to depend on others.
17
I worry about having others not accept me.
18
I tend to let problems build up before dealing with them.
19
I would like to spend more time with others, but they do not have enough time for me.
20
It takes along time for me to become close to someone new.
21
I am affectionate in my relationships with others.
22
I am too busy to form close relationships with others.
23
I tend to be emotionally expressive in my relationships with others.
24
I am honest and open in my relationships with others.
25
I am shy in social situations.
26
When I disagree with others, I find that they are often defensive.
27
I do not disclose personal information to others that I am close to.
28
It is difficult to accept advice from others because their views are so different from mine.
29
I like to deal with conflict immediately, regardless of how long it takes to resolve the conflict.
30
I am usually a good judge of how others are feeling.
31
I cry easily.
32
I handle conflicts differently depending on the issues and the individual involved.
33
I do not express my feelings openly for fear that others might disagree with me.
34
I believe that it is a waste of time to argue/disagree with others.
35
I am comfortable crying in front of others.
36
Many of the problems in my relationships with others are primarily my fault.
37
When I am upset, I go to others for comfort or support.
38
I do not go to others when I am upset because I like to deal with problems on my own.
39
Although I want to be accepted, sometimes I feel like I do not fit in.
40
I wish that I could be more open in my relationships, but I do not know how to change.