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Sometimes when I get what I want in a relationship, I'm not sure I want it anymore.
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I'm not the jealous type.
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When something good happens, I can hardly wait to tell my partner.
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My romantic partners have usually been there when I needed them.
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Often, just when you think you can depend on someone, the person doesn't come through.
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My romantic partners have often let me down.
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I think most people are trustworthy.
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My romantic partners have rarely given me enough of their time.
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I like to be as emotionally close as possible with my romantic partners.
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I often get frustrated because my romantic partners don't understand my needs.
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I want attention and affection but sometimes feel uncomfortable when I get it.
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It's easy for me to ask others for help.
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I have to keep track of my partner if I want him or her to be around when needed.
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My romantic partners have not been as consistently available as I would like.
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I often worry that my partner might leave me for someone else.
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Sometimes I love my partner passionately, but at other times I feel myself pulling back.
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I don't often feel I have to keep track of my partner's whereabouts.
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I usually prefer to be alone rather than with others.
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My romantic partners have often been inconsiderate.
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When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.
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I sometimes get frustrated and angry because no one loves me the way I'd like to be loved.
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I'm often not sure how I feel about my partner.
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My romantic partners have generally been trustworthy.
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When my partner pays attention to other people, I can't help feeling jealous.
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I like to share new ideas with my romantic partner.
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It's risky to open up to another person.
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When I am away from my romantic partner, I miss him/her a great deal.
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I rarely ask others for any kind of help.
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I miss my partner intensely when we're apart, but sometimes when we're together I feel like escaping.
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Sometimes people change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.
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I'm in no hurry to get involved in a long-term, committed relationship.
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I'm not the kind of person who readily turns to others in times of need.
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My romantic partners haven't usually understood what I needed.
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It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need.
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I often have trouble figuring out whether I'm truly in love with my partner or not.
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I've generally been able to count on romantic partners for comfort and understanding.
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Frequently, I wish I could get closer to my romantic partner.
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After even a brief separation, I eagerly look forward to seeing my partner.
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I wish my partner would open up more to me.
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When I'm not involved in a relationship, I feel somewhat anxious and insecure.
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I don't often worry about being abandoned by a lover.
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It's easy for me to trust romantic partners.
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Sometimes I feel certain I can trust my partner, but at other times I'm not so sure.
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I seek comfort from others when I'm troubled or ill.
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My romantic partners usually do what they want regardless of my wishes.
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I'm not very comfortable being away from my partner.
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I don't hesitate to ask for help when I need it.
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It's best to be cautious in dealing with most people.
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I haven't received enough appreciation from romantic partners.
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Most people are well-intentioned and good-hearted.
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I don't mind asking others for comfort, advice, or help.
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You can't trust most people.
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I enjoy talking to my romantic partner about almost anything.
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When I'm troubled or ill I prefer to be alone.
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I find it easy to trust others.
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I don't need much affection from a romantic partner.
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I find it difficult to depend on others.
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I like to tell my romantic partner all about my day.
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I feel comfortable depending on other people.
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My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.
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I sometimes feel angry or annoyed with my partner without knowing why.
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I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.
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I find it relatively easy to get close to others.
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My romantic partner doesn't take my concerns seriously.
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I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.
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I've often gotten angry at romantic partners for ignoring me.
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My romantic partners have often been unavailable when I needed them.
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I sometimes feel that getting too close will cause trouble for me.
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I don't seek out my romantic partner when I am feeling bad.
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I get frustrated when my partner isn't around as much as I would like.