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I would feel uncomfortable telling O about things in the past that I have felt ashamed of.
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I would feel uneasy talking with O about something that has hurt me deeply.
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I would feel comfortable expressing my true feelings to O.
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If O were upset I would sometimes be afraid of showing that I care.
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I might be afraid to confide my innermost feelings to O.
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I would feel at ease telling O that I care about him/her.
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I would have a feeling of complete togetherness with O.
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I would be comfortable discussing significant problems with O.
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A part of me would be afraid to make a long-term commitment to O.
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I would feel comfortable telling my experiences, even sad ones, to O.
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I would probably feel nervous showing O strong feelings of affection.
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I would find it difficult being open with O about my personal thoughts.
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I would feel uneasy with O depending on me for emotional support.
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I would not be afraid to share with O what I dislike about myself.
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I would be afraid to take the risk of being hurt in order to establish a closer relationship with O.
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I would feel comfortable keeping very personal information to myself.
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I would not be nervous about being spontaneous with O.
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I would feel comfortable telling O things that I do not tell other people.
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I would feel comfortable trusting O with my deepest thoughts and feelings.
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I would sometimes feel uneasy if O told me about very personal matters.
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I would be comfortable revealing to O what I feel are my shortcomings and handicaps.
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I would be comfortable with having a close emotional tie between us.
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I would be afraid of sharing my private thoughts with O.
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I would be afraid that I might not always feel close to O.
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I would be comfortable telling O what my needs are.
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I would be afraid that O would be more invested in the relationship than I would be.
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I would feel comfortable about having open and honest communication with O.
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I would sometimes feel uncomfortable listening to O's personal problems.
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I would feel at ease to completely be myself around O.
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I would feel relaxed being together and talking about our personal goals.
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I have shied away from opportunities to be close to someone.
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I have held back my feelings in previous relationships.
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There are people who think that I am afraid to get close to them.
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There are people who think that I am not an easy person to get to know.
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I have done things in previous relationships to keep me from developing closeness.