Form: Experiences in Close Relationships Revised, ECR-R

I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.

I worry that romantic partners won't care about me as much as I care about them.

I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.

I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.

I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for her.

I am nervous when partners get too close to me.

I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, she won't like who I really am.

I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.

I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.

It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.

It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.

I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.

My partner only seems to notice me when I'm angry.

When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.

My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.

I feel comfortable depending on romantic partners.

My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.

When my partner is out of sight, I worry that she might become interested in someone else.

It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.

I worry that I won't measure up to other people.

I talk things over with my partner.

I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.

I tell my partner just about everything.

I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.

I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.

I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.

It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need.

I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my partner.

I worry a lot about my relationships.

I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.

I do not often worry about being abandoned.

I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.

Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.

I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.

My partner really understands me and my needs.

I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.