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When I see HIM feeling sad, I feel a need to reach out to him.
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I spend a lot of time concerned about the well-being of HIM.
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When I hear about HIM going through a difficult time, I feel a great deal of compassion for him.
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It is easy for me to feel the pain (and joy) experienced by HIM.
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If HE needs help, I would do almost anything I could to help him.
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I feel considerable compassionate love for HIM.
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I would rather suffer myself than see HIM suffer.
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If given the opportunity, I am willing to sacrifice in order to let HIM achieve his goals.
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I tend to feel compassion for HIM.
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One of the activities that provides me with the most meaning to my life is helping HIM.
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I would rather engage in actions that help HIM than engage in actions that would help me.
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I often have tender feelings toward HIM when he seems to be in need.
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I feel a selfless caring for HIM.
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I accept HIM even when he or she does things I think are wrong.
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If HE is troubled, I usually feel extreme tenderness and caring.
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I try to understand rather than judge HIM.
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I try to put myself in HIS shoes when he is in trouble.
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I feel happy when I see that HE is happy.
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HE can assume that I will be there if he needs me.
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I want to spend time with HIM so that I can find ways to help enrich his life.
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I very much wish to be kind and good to HIM.