1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Mostly not characteristic of me
3 – Neutral
4 – Mostly characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
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I find it relatively easy to get close to people.
2
I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on others.
3
I often worry that romantic partners don't really love me.
4
I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.
5
I am comfortable depending on others.
6
I don't worry about people getting too close to me.
7
I find that people are never there when you need them.
8
I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.
9
I often worry that romantic partners won't want to stay with me.
10
When I show my feelings for others, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.
11
I often wonder whether romantic partners really care about me.
12
I am comfortable developing close relationships with others.
13
I am uncomfortable when anyone gets too emotionally close to me.
14
I know that people will be there when I need them.
15
I want to get close to people, but I worry about being hurt.
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I find it difficult to trust others completely.
17
Romantic partners often want me to be emotionally closer than I feel comfortable being.
18
I am not sure that I can always depend on people to be there when I need them.