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I find it relatively easy to get close to others.
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I'm not very comfortable having to depend on other people.
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I'm comfortable having others depend on me.
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I rarely worry about being abandoned by others.
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I don't like people getting too close to me.
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I'm somewhat uncomfortable being too close to others.
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I find it difficult to trust others completely.
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I'm nervous whenever anyone gets too close to me.
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Others often want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being.
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Others often are reluctant to get as close as I would like.
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I often worry that my partner(s) don't really love me.
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I rarely worry about my partner(s) leaving me.
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I often want to merge completely with others, and this desire sometimes scares themaway.
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I'm confident others would never hurt me by suddenly ending our relationship.
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I usually want more closeness and intimacy than others do.
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The thought of being left by others rarely enters my mind.
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I'm confident that my partner(s) love me just as much as I love them.