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I know how my partner is going to act. My partner can always be counted on to act as I expect.
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I have found that my partner is a thoroughly dependable person, especially when it comes to things that are important.
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My partner's behavior tends to be quite variable. I can't always be sure what my partner will surprise me with next.
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Though times may change and the future is uncertain, I have faith that my partner will always be ready and willing to offer me strength, come what may.
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Based on past experience I cannot, with complete confidence, rely on my partner to keep promises made to me.
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It is sometimes difficult for me to be absolutely certain that my partner will always continue to care for me; the future holds too many uncertainties and too many things can change in our relationship as time goes on.
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My partner is a very honest person and, even if my partner were to make unbelievable statements, people should feel confident that what they are hearing is the truth.
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My partner is not very predictable. People can't always be certain how my partner is going to act from one day to another.
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My partner has proven to be a faithful person. No matter who my partner was married to, she or he would never be unfaithful, even if there was absolutely no chance of being caught.
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I am never concerned that unpredictable conflicts and serious tensions may damage our relationship because I know we can weather any storm.
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I am very familiar with the patterns of behavior that my partner has established and expect that he or she will behave in certain ways.
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If I have never faced a particular issue with my partner before, I occasionally worry that he or she won't take my feelings into account.
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Even in familiar circumstances, I am not totally certain my partner will act in the same way twice.
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I feel completely secure in facing unknown, new situations because I know my partner will never let me down.
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My partner is not necessarily someone others always consider reliable. I can think of some times when my partner could not be counted on.
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I occasionally find myself feeling uncomfortable with the emotional investment I have made in our relationship because I find it hard to completely set aside my doubts about what lies ahead.
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My partner has not always proven to be trustworthy in the past, and there are times when I am hesitant to let my partner engage in activities that make me feel vulnerable.
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My partner behaves in a consistent manner.