1 – Not at all characteristic of me
2 – Slightly characteristic of me
3 – Somewhat characteristic of me
4 – Moderately characteristic of me
5 – Very characteristic of me
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It would bother me if my sexual partner neglected my needs.
2
When I make love with someone I generally expect something in return.
3
If I were to make love with a sexual partner, I'd take that person's needs & feelings into account.
4
If a sexual partner were to do something sensual for me, I'd try to do the same for him.
5
I'm not especially sensitive to the feelings of a sexual partner.
6
I don't think people should feel obligated to repay an intimate partner for sexual favors.
7
I don't consider myself to be a particularly helpful sexual partner.
8
I wouldn't feel all that exploited if an intimate partner failed to repay me for a sexual favor.
9
I believe sexual lovers should go out of their way to be sexually responsive to their partner.
10
I wouldn't bother to keep track of the times a sexual partner asked for a sensual pleasure.
11
I wouldn't especially enjoy helping a partner achieve their own sexual satisfaction.
12
When a person receives sexual pleasures from another, he ought to repay that person right away.
13
I expect a sexual partner to be responsive to my sexual needs and feelings.
14
It's best to make sure things are always kept «even» between two people in a sexual relationship.
15
I would be willing to go out of my way to satisfy my sexual partner.
16
I would do a special sexual favor for an intimate partner, only if that person did some special sexual favor for me.
17
I don't think it's wise to get involved taking care of a partner's sexual needs.
18
If my sexual partner performed a sexual request for me, I wouldn't feel that I'd have to repay him later on.
19
I'm not the sort of person who would help a partner with a sexual problem.
20
If my sexual partner wanted something special from me, he would have to do something sexual for me.
21
If I were feeling sexually needy, I'd ask my sexual partner for help.
22
If my sexual partner became emotionally upset, I would try to avoid him.
23
People should keep their sexual problems to themselves.
24
If a sexual partner were to ignore my sexual needs, I'd feel hurt.