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The intensity of my sexual arousal.
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The quality of my orgasms.
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My “letting go” and surrender to sexual pleasure during sex.
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My focus/concentration during sexual activity.
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The way I sexually react to my partner.
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My body's sexual functioning.
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My emotional opening up in sex.
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My mood after sexual activity.
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The frequency of my orgasms.
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The pleasure I provide to my partner.
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The balance between what I give and receive in sex.
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My partner's emotional opening up during sex.
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My partner's initiation of sexual activity.
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My partner's ability to orgasm.
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My partner's surrender to sexual pleasure (“letting go”).
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The way my partner takes care of my sexual needs.
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My partner's sexual creativity.
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My partner's sexual availability.
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The variety of my sexual activities.
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The frequency of my sexual activity.