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I have to do things to avoid my partner's jealousy.
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My partner tries to control whom I spend my time with.
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My partner disapproves all my friends.
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My partner does not believe me when I talk about where I have been.
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My partner complains that I spend too much time with other people.
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My partner accuses me of flirting with other people.
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In social situations my partner complains that I ignore him.
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My partner is suspicious that I am unfaithful.
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My partner acts like a detective, looking for clues that I've done something wrong.
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My partner checks up on me.
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My partner keeps me from going places I want to go.
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My partner keeps me from doing things I want to do.
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My partner says I act too seductively.
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My partner keeps me from spending time at the things I enjoy.
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My partner threatens to take the car keys if I don't do as I am told.
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My partner threatens to take the money if I don't do as I am told.
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My partner threatens to take the checkbook if I don't do as I am told.
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My partner prevents me from leaving the house when I want to.
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My partner disables the phone to prevent my using it.
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My partner disables the car to prevent my using it.
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My partner threatens to pull the phone out of the wall.
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My partner forcibly tries to restrict my movements.
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My partner acts jealous.
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My partner keeps me ho spending time with the people I choose.
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My partner tries to catch me at inconsistencies to show that I am lying.
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My partner tries to convince other people that I am crazy.
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My partner tells other people that there is something wrong with me.
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My partner says things that hurt me out of spite.
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My partner has told me I am sexually unattractive.
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My partner tells me I am sexually inadequate.
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My partner insults my religious background and beliefs.
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My partner insults my ethnic background.
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My partner insults my family.
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My partner talks me into doing things that make me feel bad afterwards.
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My partner tells me no one else would ever want me.
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My partner humiliates me in front of others.
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My partner makes me do degrading things.
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My partner questions my sanity.
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My partner tells other people personal information or secret about me.
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My partner swears at me.
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My partner verbally attacks my personality.
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My partner has insulted me by telling me that I am incompetent (stupid).
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My partner ridicules me.
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My partner forces me to do things against my will.
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My partner questions whether my love is true.
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My partner compares me unfavorably to other partners.
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My partner intentionally does things to scare me.
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My partner threatens me physically during arguments.
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My partner warns me that if I keep doing something, violence will follow.
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My partner our arguments often escalate out of control.
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I'm worried most when my partner is quiet.
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My partner drives recklessly or too fast when he is angry.