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I use both negative and positive feelings to guide my decisions.
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Negative feelings help me address changes I need to make.
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I am the picture of grace under pressure.
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I have the ability to regularly monitor my emotions.
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No matter the obstacles or demands, I am good at focusing my attention to be productive.
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I am an optimist no matter what gets in my way, and this enables me to motivate myself to overcome setbacks.
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I am completely responsible for how I feel and react to others.
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After something has upset me, I can easily regain my composure.
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I am effective at listening to other people's problems.
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I do not dwell on negative things or hold grudges.
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I am sensitive to the emotional needs of others.
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I have a calming influence on people around me.
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I enjoy challenges and look for the positive in everything I do.
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I am very creative when faced with adversity.
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I respond appropriately to other people's moods and motivations.
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I can easily enter into a «Zen» state, or a state characterized by calmness, intuition, and focus.
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When the time is right, I face my negative feelings and work through the issue.
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I am capable of calming myself after a discouraging event.
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Knowing my true feelings is crucial to my wellbeing.
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I am good at understanding the emotions and motivations of other people.
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I can effectively sense other people's feelings, even when they don't match their words.
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I can easily set negative feelings aside when called upon to perform.
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I am aware of subtle social signals that indicate what others need.
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People seek my advice about handling relationships.
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People who are aware of their true feelings are better able to cope and perform in all aspects of their lives.
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I am often able to cheer other people when they are sad.
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People view me as a great coach for others.
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When other people are upset or sad, I feel their pain.
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I help others capitalize on their motivations to achieve their goals.
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I am easily able to manage my stress levels.