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I can usually talk my way out of anything.
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When people don't notice me, I start to feel bad about myself.
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I often hide my needs for fear that others will see me as needy and dependent.
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I can make anyone believe anything I want them to.
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I get annoyed by people who are not interested in what I say or do.
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I find it easy to manipulate people.
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Sometimes I avoid people because I'm concerned that they'll disappoint me.
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I typically get very angry when I'm unable to get what I want from others.
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When others don't meet my expectations, I often feel ashamed about what I wanted.
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I feel important when others rely on me.
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I can read people like a book.
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Sacrificing for others makes me the better person.
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I often fantasize about accomplishing things that are probably beyond my means.
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Sometimes I avoid people because I'm afraid they won't do what I want them to.
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It's hard to show others the weaknesses I feel inside.
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It's hard to feel good about myself unless I know other people admire me.
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I often fantasize about being rewarded for my efforts.
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I am preoccupied with thoughts and concerns that most people are not interested in me.
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I like to have friends who rely on me because it makes me feel important.
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Sometimes I avoid people because I'm concerned they won't acknowledge what I do for them.
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It's hard for me to feel good about myself unless I know other people like me.
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It irritates me when people don't notice how good a person I am.
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I will never be satisfied until I get all that I deserve.
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I try to show what a good person I am through my sacrifices.
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I often fantasize about performing heroic deeds.
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I often fantasize about being recognized for my accomplishments.
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I can't stand relying on other people because it makes me feel weak.
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When others get a glimpse of my needs, I feel anxious and ashamed.