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It is difficult to be happy unless one is good looking, intelligent, rich and creative.
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Happiness is more a matter of my attitude towards myself than the way other people feel about me.
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People will probably think less of me if I make a mistake.
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If I do not do well all the time, people will not respect me.
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Taking even a small risk is foolish because the loss is likely to be a disaster.
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It is possible to gain another person's respect without being especially talented at anything.
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I cannot be happy unless most people I know admire me.
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If a person asks for help, it is a sign of weakness.
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If I do not do as well as other people, it means I am an inferior human being.
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If I fail at my work, then I am a failure as a person.
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If you cannot do something well, there is little point in doing it at all.
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Making mistakes is fine because I can learn from them.
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If someone disagrees with me, it probably indicates that he does not like me.
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If I fail partly, it is as bad as being a complete failure.
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If other people know what you are really like, they will think less of you.
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I am nothing if a person I love does not love me.
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One can get pleasure from an activity regardless of the result.
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People should have a reasonable likelihood of success before undertaking anything.
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My value as a person depends greatly on what others think of me.
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If I don't set the highest standards for myself, I am likely to end up a second-rate person.
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If I am to be a worthwhile person, I must be truly outstanding in at least one major respect.
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People who have good ideas are more worthy than those who do not.
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I should be upset if I make a mistake.
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My own opinions of myself are more important than others' opinions of me.
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To be a good, moral, worthwhile person, I must help everyone who needs it.
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If I ask a question, it makes me look inferior.
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It is awful to be disapproved of by other people important to you.
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If you don't have other people to lean on, you are bound to be sad.
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I can reach important goals without slave driving myself.
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It is possible for a person to be scolded and not get upset.
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I cannot trust other people because they might be cruel to me.
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If others dislike you, you cannot be happy.
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It is best to give up your own interests in order to please other people.
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My happiness depends more on other people than it does on me.
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I do not need the approval of other people in order to be happy.
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If a person avoids problems, the problems tend to go away.
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I can be happy even if I miss out on many of the good things in life.
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What other people think about me is very important.
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Being isolated from other people is bound to lead to unhappiness.
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I can find happiness without being loved by another person.